Grace, Love & Kindness + Life.

The other day I was asked what I liked about the two jobs I've had. (I've a few other jobs here and there mixed in, but those were my longest standing to show what I've done with my last 10 years in the work force.. so we're going with those) Anyway. I was asked what I liked about the two. What I loved about job one , was employee appreciation- no not the 'good job Misty' or a pat on the back, I mean, they took care of their employees. Sometimes they'd have bagels, donuts, fruit for breakfast. Always had coffee, at least once a month their was lunch in the office too. (Even if it was left overs after a board meeting, it was offered to us) They brought someone in to do massages on neck and shoulders (After all we sat at a desk all day everyday). Also every year they had someone come in for health and wellness for literally an annual check up. We were salary paid, so you weren't working a 8-5, hardly ever. You made up the time. But even then, I cou

That time of the year is approaching quickly! The birthday parties, the bridal showers, the wedding season! Do you know what that means? This bikini body you've been working on all winter, is in danger! So to speak. What do you do when you are faced with that delicious red velvet cake at your best friends birthday party?? What about your favorite red wine? We all talk about the treats, but alcohol can and will sabotage that hard work, and quick too! It's the sugar, and it's so yum! But it's not yum for you. However, you already know this... so let move on to some helpful tips. Almost every party I've been to (including showers of all kinds and birthday's) there is some kind of fruit tray (with dip) veggie tray (with dip) and maybe even a bowl full of nuts (no... not the people there, well, maybe them too... but I mean peanuts, almonds, cashews.. those nuts!) Options, skip the dips... eat the fruit by itself, the veggies by itself, grab a spo

Currently it's pouring rain outside my back door, and the thunder is rolling. Nothing is better than a Midwest thunderstorm. One would think that this is the best time to be with your thoughts, be center and concentrate and maybe write some of the best writing you've ever done. But today, I have so many scattered thoughts, and couldn't be further from being centered if the I was standing at the center of the earth. So I'm just going to write what's been on my mind lately... and I might be all over the place. I make no apologies, I made the disclaimer above. I have friends. I have many friends. I have very few I confide in, and even less that I know I could tell anything to. With that being said, isn't it interesting how you can be facebook friends with someone and not even say hello if you saw them in passing? This day in age is the only time we ever get away with that. And it makes me sad. We are more connected than ever before, yet so alone than e

What are you doing with your life? I have been asking myself this question for the last 3 weeks. Maybe you know the answer to that question for yourself. I however, do not. I truly believe I'm circling where I'm supposed to be, but haven't quite nailed it yet. Maybe. A few weeks ago I had to break down and finally go see the doctor. I had a sinus infection that had been causing headaches for over a month, and a double ear infection- what? Yes. Double ear infection. Fluid behind my ears, that I thought only happened in baby and toddler years. Anyway.... The doctor I saw was speaking to me about allergies, while I argued I didn't have them- she said, I'm 32 as well and mine have only begun, you and I are in the same boat. Really? Are we now? Because last I checked, you have a lab coat on, I have on sweats and no make-up. Whatever. We are not the same. She's 32. I'm 32. Wait, we're the same age. She's a Doctor. .... Good for her. My d